Wisdom: Dean Sue

What is your idea of perfect happiness? Sitting on the beach on a sunny day

What is your greatest fear? Missing an opportunity to meet an interesting person

What is the trait you most deplore in yourself? Lack of patience

What is the trait you most deplore in others? Not cleaning up after themselves

Which living person do you most admire? The media has made it difficult to admire most people

What is your greatest extravagance? Running shoes

What is your current state of mind? Grateful

What do you consider the most overrated virtue? Balance

On what occasion do you lie? When a student asks for a letter of recommendation and I tell her/him that I have plenty of time to write one

What do you most dislike about your appearance? I’ve stopped counting

Which living person do you most despise? I try not to despise anyone

What is the quality you most like in a man? Warm smile and a firm handshake

What is the quality you most like in a woman? Decisiveness

Which words or phrases do you most overuse? On the other hand

What or who is the greatest love of your life? Health and time (and my mom, of course)

When and where were you happiest? At Duke

Which talent would you most like to have? Ability to run fast and for a long time

If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be? My metabolism

What do you consider your greatest achievement? It’s yet to happen

If you were to die and come back as a person or a thing, what would it be? An Olympic marathoner

Where would you most like to live? Durham, NC

What is your most treasured possession? Health and peace of mind

What do you regard as the lowest depth of misery? Lacking energy

What is your favorite occupation? Working with Duke students, eating and

exercising

What is your most marked characteristic? Being on time

What do you most value in your friends? Not wanting to change me

Who are your favorite writers? J.D. Salinger and Chaim Potok

Who is your hero of fiction? Hard to choose between Boo Radley, Atticus Finch and Scout Finch

Which historical figure do you most identify with? Occasionally and in very limited ways, I identify with Carrie Nation

Who are your heroes in real life? Members of the Duke football team

What are your favorite names? Cutcliffe and Blue Devils

What is it that you most dislike? Tailgate

What is your greatest regret? Never having learned how to speak Polish

How would you like to die? I’d like to live forever

What is your motto? “Forgiveness doesn’t come with a debt” – Mary Chapin Carpenter

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